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ask-kalaIn this column, Ask Kala –  Kala invites you to email your probing metaphysical, spiritual, esoteric and paranormal questions.

Due to the volume of email she receives, she won’t be able to answer back individual e-mails. Instead, she’ll choose interesting questions and answer them here.

Hi Kala, My name is Tammy. I’m from Kansas City, MO. I have been wondering if when a loved one has passed and reincarnated, can you still make contact with them as the person you knew them as? Hope that makes sense! I’ve listened to many mediums – John Edward, Lisa Williams, Mary Occhino… But I’ve never heard anyone speak to my question. Thank you!

Hi Tammy,

kalaambroseThis is a great question. First, we must look at the soul. The soul is a container which holds all that we are energetically.

We often think of our soul as being inside of our body, while actually, only a tiny part of our soul resides inside the body. The largest part of our soul stays up in the spiritual planes and only a small part of it comes down to the earth plane to be inside our physical body.

The best way to picture this, is to visualize a pyramid pointing upside down. So the giant base of the pyramid (your soul) would be up in the higher spiritual planes. The tiny capstone (point) of the pyramid is the section that resides within your body, near the heart area.

The capstone contains the spark of life, the energy which activates the soul and the body. As it enters the body, it begins to pour all that is You, from the higher planes, down into your heart area when you are born. 


This capstone area of the soul has a crystalline structure which captures all of the experiences in your life. Each night as you sleep, it returns this energy information back up to the higher planes through a cord connection and stores this data in the akashic records.

Now we have an understanding of our soul as a container, which holds the essence of all of who we are and all we have ever been in every lifetime and we understand that only a small part of the soul is inside the physical body, while the major part of the soul remains in spirit world.

You are a greater energy than you realize and contain much more than what is described as your body, mind and spirit.

Now let’s look at the higher planes surrounding us. We are on the earth plane, where we are grounded through the lower chakras.

We tend to think of the higher planes as places above us, way up in the sky, where people point to when they are speaking of Heaven. There are many levels to the higher planes, but let’s stick to the basics for this question.

Some of the higher planes can be reached from various points of your body, including your heart, throat and third eye region, so the higher planes are closer and more accessible than most people realize. In the higher planes, (which are higher energy vortexes, rather than high points in the sky) the confining rules of the earth plane do not exist, including the limitations of time as we know it as well as the concept of being in one space at one time. The deeper one ventures into the spiritual planes, the greater the ability is to be omni-present. This allows us basically, to be in several places at once.  When we pass on from this lifetime and return to our soul body, we are omni-present and able to communicate without the confines of one body or one lifetime on earth.

As we take this big picture look at the soul, we see that the majority of the essence and energy of what makes us who we are resides in the higher planes and that only a small portion of our soul trickles down into the body which reincarnates from lifetime to lifetime. The larger part of ourselves in the higher planes has a greater consciousness and awareness and is the sum of all of our parts, with full knowledge of all of our lifetimes and experiences.

When we reach out to speak to a loved one, who has passed on, we connect with a part of their essence, what we would refer to as their Higher Self.

The Higher Self retains memory of all of their lifetimes including the one that we are reaching out to connect to them. The Higher Self, not bound by the restrictions of time and space on earth, can continue to communicate with us with these memories and connections of one lifetime, while also having the freedom to incorporate another portion of the self, into a new body to gain new experiences at the same time.

Magic Of Wave ParticleTo do this, the soul creates an entry level point (a cord of energy) when the person enters into another physical body to begin a new lifetime to generate and record new experiences. At the same time, the largest part of the soul up in spirit world remembers each lifetime. When a person reaches out to this soul and calls them by their name in a specific incarnation, the energy cord from their aura reaches out to this particular experience and incarnation, which connects to the soul. The soul can then transmit information back to the person on earth, in the form that the person is requesting to communicate to the soul, in that particular lifetime when they were a mother for example, while also using a different cord that is connected to a new lifetime to transmit data from that experience at the same time.  This process continues further into multi-dimensions but that is a question for another time.

In my Wisdom Course called Lesson Ten: Working in Spirit Realms, I describe the journey and experience of the soul and how to communicate with someone who has passed on, so that you can connect to a specific lifetime of that soul.  I also explain how you can visit the Akashic Records to see the records kept from your previous lifetimes and what you can do to bring this information back to your conscious experience here in this lifetime.

You can take this course here at my Academy of Mystical Arts and Spiritual Sciences.  It’s LESSON TEN: Working in Spirit Realms.

Lesson Ten: Working in Spirit Realm and in the Akashic Records


There are certain pockets of time each year where the portals to spirit world are more easily accessible to pass through, both for spirits to visit the earth plane and for those of us here on earth to visit the other planes. The three days around the holiday known as Halloween, (October 30, 31st and November 1st) are one of these times where the veil is easily lifted and pierced.

During this three-day period, many people choose to connect with their loved ones from the other side. One of the ways to reach out and connect with your loved ones in spirit is to host what is described as a “dumb supper”. The word dumb is referred to in its early origins, which means to be mute or quiet. Silence is dracula`s dining roomobserved during this dinner, in order to allow people to sit quietly and reflect and honor those who have gone on to the other side. It also allows for information to come through from spirit.

In the spiritual realms where the higher self resides, a record of every thought, action, word and deed is recorded for each soul. Referred to as the Akashic Records, these vibrational energy imprints remain attached to the soul through each lifetime. These imprints shape each soul’s destiny, karma and life purpose. The records explain “who you are” and “why you are here” in this lifetime. . During these portals of time, it is easier to access through the spirit veil and travel to visit your akashic records.  Time of video: 1:49

During this video download course, Kala shares:smquartzpyramidenergygenerator

  • How to access the Akashic Records during this time, to take Advantage of the Lifting of the Veil into Spirit Realms
  • Inviting Loved Ones from the Other Side to a Special Dinner called a Dumb Supper
  • How to Reach a Specific Person when Attempting to Contact Someone on the Other Side
  • Why some Messages are vague from Mediums
  • How to use a Crystal Grid to Store Your Akashic Data for Memory Recovery
  • How to Consciously Deposit information into Your Akashic Records
  • Using the Ankh and Cross Energy to open the Heart Chakra


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About the Author

Kala Ambrose is "Your Travel Guide to the Other Side". Award winning Author, Intuitive, Wisdom Teacher, Podcaster and Lifestyle Expert, she helps Entrepreneurs, Seekers and Visionaries live their best life.

She is the award winning author of six books including The Awakened Dreamer, The Awakened Psychic, and The Awakened Aura, and has taught thousands around the world how to connect with their soul path and destiny and create a life and career that is balanced and in tune with their life purpose and goals.

Whether she’s teaching students at her Academy of Mystical Arts & Spiritual Sciences, writing and speaking about empowering lifestyle choices or teaching to groups around the country, fans around the world tune in daily for her inspirational musings and lively thought-provoking conversations.

5 responses to “Communicating with the Dead after they have Reincarnated

  1. Hi Tom, I recommend As A Man Thinketh to all my students and it’s one of my favorite books. Glad to hear that you enjoy it too. Thanks for reading the Blog and for your comments. All the best, *~Kala~*

  2. Thanks for taking the time out to answer questions and share your knowledge. Some of these topics can be quite overwhelming and even sometimes confusing. It is nice that you take the time out to help others understand them.

  3. Namashkar Kala Madam,

    Could help me to know where my daughter would have taken birth or whether she is in heaven or which part of this universe..


    Mangesh Birdankar
    (Father of Maithili)

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